Stages Recovery enlightenment is that of emotional integration, mental balance, and inner peace.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2TY6dKb6g8xF1FU5xjPvNLMkciXYGAV4dOS10HWNoJKIY_Q2CTBuW2DMc2UZyiG97i5f17Mu2t9akQp4Jj4JF7dy6Xpj-rjsWLW0L_yWhO0vR2GmA8tmJwIg2kKKbx_rLQXQuf3ibT8Os/s1600/1-The+Ten+Stages234-003.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="116" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2TY6dKb6g8xF1FU5xjPvNLMkciXYGAV4dOS10HWNoJKIY_Q2CTBuW2DMc2UZyiG97i5f17Mu2t9akQp4Jj4JF7dy6Xpj-rjsWLW0L_yWhO0vR2GmA8tmJwIg2kKKbx_rLQXQuf3ibT8Os/s320/1-The+Ten+Stages234-003.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">As we move forward on our path towards our full recovery, do not be alarmed because different parts of ourselves live at different stages of our healing journey. Some parts can become healed and insightful quiet quickly, while others can remain buried within our child and out of touch at this moment. We have all experienced this and its perfectly normal. Our different parts traverse the various stages at their own speeds, seemingly independently – but ultimately connected to our child within who is perfect and by our constantly updating universal thread of truth our intuitive voice.<br /><br />Our first most primitive stage on our child within’s healing journey is the contest stage which we all go through. This is the stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by the parents. This parts of us that appears to be winning the contest of our life stop our journey before it has even begun. Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they have never happened – and that we are already healed.Many of us have attended self help therapy groups where we have learnt dysfunctional dissociative methods that mimic recovery. It is for this reason that our dissociation has often mimicked our recovery previously. Here we idealise or blank the parents memory, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the hidden traumas lurking in our guts.<br /><br />Yet where parts of us lose the contest we evolve into the second stage: suffering. This is the stage of depression, failure, misery, and inertia. Here we wallow in seemingly purposeless pain and depression. The silver lining around our cloud of parental idealisation has been stripped away, but the cloud remains intact. We still wish to be rescued by our parents and their replicated stand-ins, but we lack the requisite pain tolerance to be able to acknowledge the impossibility of this. Here we live in tortured ambivalence, and we spend out hours and days trying to get others to love us in the way our parents never could. Part of us wishes to devolve back into the seeming pleasure of grandiosity, but the healthier part recalls how cruelly that route already failed us.<br /><br />Those parts of us with the capacity to face our terrors enter the third stage: grieving. This is the stage of purposeful struggling. Here we unearth the truth of our past, which allows the eruption of the stinking cesspool of our buried traumas. Here we witness the horror lurking behind idealisation of the parents and we work to disassemble their lies. Our honest confidence leads us into the face of the hurricane, because our newly recognised child within and its allies tell us that blue skies lie on the other side. Here we are humble, here we confront the truth of the worst of our traumas, either in interaction with them or through whatever means will best help us integrate the truth, and through this our journey rages forward.<br /><br />With each demon we conquer we take a further step into the fourth stage: Stages Recovery enlightenment is that of emotional integration, mental balance, and inner peace. Here lie the deepest goals of mankind. All want to know truth, and the awakened child within achieves it – in all parts of ourself that arrive in the final stage. Here we grow able to distinguish light from shadow and water from mirage. Here we nurture the evolution of our primitive sides instead of expressing them destructively. Here we devote the best of ourselves to healing. Here we no longer traumatise others in the very patterns in which we were traumatised, but instead replicate the best of ourselves – and generate beauty in the world around us. Here, having healed our wounds of adulthood, we share freely of our gifts, because now our gifts are accessible.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/preliminary-stages-workshops.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/343934892_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/preliminary-stages-workshops.html" style="background-image: none; 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Stages Recovery enlightenment is that of emotional integration, mental balance, and inner peace.

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