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We have to make contact with our child within.

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We have to make contact with our child within.When we speak of listening with compassion, we usually think of listening to someone else. B...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We have to make contact with our child within.When we speak of listening with compassion, we usually think of listening to someone else. But we must also listen to the wounded child within inside us. Sometimes the wounded child within in us needs all our attention. That little child might emerge from the depths of your consciousness and ask for your attention. If you are compassionate and minded, you will hear his or her voice calling for help. At that moment, instead of paying attention to whatever is in front of you, go back and tenderly talk to the wounded child. You can talk directly to the child with the language of love, saying, “In the past, I left you alone. I went away from you. Now, I am very sorry. I am going to listen to you.” You can say, “ I am here for you. I will take good care of you. I know you suffer so much. I have been so busy. I have neglected you, and now I have learned a way to come back to you.” If necessary, you have to cry together with that child within. Whenever you need to, you can sit and breathe with the child. “Breathing in, I go back to my wounded child; breathing out, I take good care of my wounded child.”<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You have to talk to your child several times a day. Only then can healing take place. Listening to your child tenderly, you reassure him that you will never let him down again or leave him unattended. The little child has been left alone for so long. That is why you need to begin this practice right away. If you don’t do it now, when will you do it?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">If you know how to go back to her and listen carefully every day for five or ten minutes, healing will take place. When you climb a beautiful mountain, invite your child within to climb with you. When you contemplate the sunset, invite her to enjoy it with you. If you do that for a few weeks or a few months, the wounded child in you will experience healing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">With practice, we can see that our wounded child is not only us. Our wounded child may represent several generations. Our mother may have suffered throughout her life. Our father may have suffered. Perhaps our parents weren’t able to look after the wounded child in themselves. So when we’re embracing the wounded child in us, we’re embracing all the wounded children of our past generations. This practice is not a practice for ourselves alone, but for numberless generations of ancestors and descendants.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Our ancestors may not have known how to care for their wounded child within, so they transmitted their wounded child to us. Our practice is to end this cycle. If we can heal our wounded child, we will not only liberate ourselves, but we will also help liberate whoever has hurt or abused us. The abuser may also have been the victim of abuse. There are people who have practiced with their inner child for a long time who have had a lessening of their suffering and have experienced transformation. Their relationships with their family and friends have become much easier.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We suffer because we have not been touched by compassion and understanding. If we generate the energy of our intuitive voice, understanding, and compassion for our wounded child, we will suffer much less. When we generate compassion understanding become possible, and we can allow people to love us. Before, we may have been suspicious of everything and everyone. Compassion helps us relate to others and restore communication.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The people around us, our family and friends, may also have a severely wounded child inside. If we’ve managed to help ourselves, we can also help them. When we’ve healed ourselves, our relationships with others become much easier. There’s more peace and more love in us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Go back and take care of yourself. Your body needs you, your feelings need you, your perceptions need you. The wounded child in you needs you. Your suffering needs you to acknowledge it. Go home and be there for all these things. Practice walking and breathing. Do everything in meditation on your child within so you can really be there, so you can be restored to health.</span></div>
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