Dissociative learned behaviour is a result of long-term abuse.

<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmFygWbjw3Xe8IflACGSIPT-oZI0Nn_dn5VSjnGukzqHR-XhX_DwRJUaopzYNaw8uJEdE07exxE3Jeb2usnButsObMgD0kIrak8JaWhLPHbIZ17UL9GKeEwmOkFIESQq9vipXdhw-N_Eui/s1600/within+child.jpeg"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmFygWbjw3Xe8IflACGSIPT-oZI0Nn_dn5VSjnGukzqHR-XhX_DwRJUaopzYNaw8uJEdE07exxE3Jeb2usnButsObMgD0kIrak8JaWhLPHbIZ17UL9GKeEwmOkFIESQq9vipXdhw-N_Eui/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a><br /><br />Dissociative learned behaviour is a result of long-term abuse. <br />Growth is the name of the game. It’s what we all crave. It’s what we all want.<br /> <br /><br /><br />Growth.<br /><br /> <br /><br />To be more. To do more. To Love more. To have more. To feel more. To give more. To express more. And perhaps to weigh less.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When we feel like we are making progress, we feel alive. When we feel stuck, it’s easy to feel dead inside.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Nothing makes me more frustrated or sad than when we feel hopeless that we can’t grow in a certain area. we love the feeling of expansion, of creation and the freedom that comes.<br /><br /> <br /><br />we believe in growth and we’ve set our whole life up to assist us in continuing to grow each and every day.<br /><br /> <br /><br />There’s a pattern we’ve noticed when it comes to growth that holds so many people back.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And that pattern is this: before you expand, you have to complete your evolution from your past.You have to make contact with your child within and begin the work of resolving your dissociations.<br /><br /> <br /><br />So you are where you are today – that is AWESOME! But, no matter where you want to go, there’s an even bigger risk that you have to take if you want to grow in your recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If you’re just dreaming then you aren’t taking risks. People who make it happen get comfortable taking greater and greater risks of contacting our childhood guardian, the child within.<br /><br />Each new goal achieved leads to a lesser risk to take next time.<br /><br />So, what to do?<br /><br />Look at where you want to go. What goals do you want to achieve?<br /><br /> <br /><br />And then look at the risks you are too scared to take. What are they? Where do they reside?<br /><br /> <br /><br />If you knew that you must go through these risks to get where you wanted to go, what next steps would you take?</span><br /> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <div> <span style="color: black; font-family: "georgia"; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div> </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/09/the-essence-of-loving-kindness-is-being.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; 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Dissociative learned behaviour is a result of long-term abuse.

Dissociative learned behaviour is a result of long-term abuse. Growth is the name of the game. It’s what we all crave. It’s what we all want...

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