Dissociative learned behaviour is a result of long-term abuse.
Growth is the name of the game. It’s what we all crave. It’s what we all want.
Growth.
To be more. To do more. To Love more. To have more. To feel more. To give more. To express more. And perhaps to weigh less.
When we feel like we are making progress, we feel alive. When we feel stuck, it’s easy to feel dead inside.
Nothing makes me more frustrated or sad than when we feel hopeless that we can’t grow in a certain area. we love the feeling of expansion, of creation and the freedom that comes.
we believe in growth and we’ve set our whole life up to assist us in continuing to grow each and every day.
There’s a pattern we’ve noticed when it comes to growth that holds so many people back.
And that pattern is this: before you expand, you have to complete your evolution from your past.You have to make contact with your child within and begin the work of resolving your dissociations.
So you are where you are today – that is AWESOME! But, no matter where you want to go, there’s an even bigger risk that you have to take if you want to grow in your recovery.
If you’re just dreaming then you aren’t taking risks. People who make it happen get comfortable taking greater and greater risks of contacting our childhood guardian, the child within.
Each new goal achieved leads to a lesser risk to take next time.
So, what to do?
Look at where you want to go. What goals do you want to achieve?
And then look at the risks you are too scared to take. What are they? Where do they reside?
If you knew that you must go through these risks to get where you wanted to go, what next steps would you take?
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