THE STAGES MEETING FORMAT RED

Stage 1: We admit that the traumas buried in our unconscious rule our lives, makes us powerless to embody the truth, and drives us to act out in ways destructive to ourselves, to others, and to the environment.

Stage 2: We come to believe that the child within at our core is more powerful than the lies imposed upon us, and that this truth can lead us to recovery.

Stage 3: We make a decision to align with the child within, despite the pressure to submit to the distortions of family, society, and the historical voices we carry within.

Stage 4: We make a searching and fearless assessment of our traumatic history: personal, familial and ancestral.

Stage 5: We admit to ourselves and to a stages guide the full details of our traumas.Identifying the triggers to our dissociations

Stage 6: We become entirely ready to grieve this past and to let go of our false self.

Stage 7: We align with our child within and do the deep and transforming work of grieving.

Stage 8: We study the ways we have hurt ourselves, others through replication of our traumas, and we become willing to make amends to them all.

Stage 9: We change our inappropriate dissociated behaviour.

Stage 10: We continue to monitor our attitudes and behaviour, and when we now feel the pain of our recovery we promptly admit it, trace its traumatic origin, and take steps to not repeat it.

Stage 11: We seek through self-reflection an ever deepening connection to our child within, desiring only to be guided to our intuitive voice.

Stage 12: Having awakened to our child within, we dedicate our lives to its full manifestation and to nurturing the healing paths of others.